Allot of people likes to put people in boxes, and label them. That makes their world nice and easy to handle. You can't do that with infantilists, because we are so special, and can contain more than one thing in the infantile univers. Despite this fact, i'll tell about the most commen types of infantilists.
This is the type of infantilist i am. I think you are adult baby when like to use some of the things real kids use, or when you like to act like a baby or toddler. The things theese infantilists use can be pacifiers, bottles, play toys etc.
I really enjoy to play like a baby at age 1-3 years, with most things the real kids use. The nice thing about being adult baby is, that yourself can decide the things you want to use in your play.
This is the second large group of infantilists. People in this group use the diaper as a fetich. Personally i think people in this group are a little afraid to be associated with adult babyes. It's more legal to have a fetich for diapers, than to be adult baby. I know several diaper lovers, and like them very much. But when it comes to AB play, they are unable to play with me, because of the age different.
This group is simmular to the AB group, but consist of teenagers. Look for this group if you are teenager, and would like to find babies your own age.
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Måske undrer du dig over hvor det seksuelle kommer ind i billedet - og det kan også være svært. Mange folk beskriver infantilisme som deres seksuelle præference, men sådan er det ikke for mig.
For mig er det nærmere en livsstil at være infantilist. Jeg har svært ved at kombinere infantilismen med en seksualitet, da jeg jo leger at jeg er en baby på mellem 1 og 3 år. Det giver ikke rigtigt mening for mig at denne baby skal være seksuel.
Når det er sagt - så er intet sort og hvidt - og jeg kan godt blive seksuelt opstemt når jeg bliver puslet. Der er i princippet også en snert af S/M og bondage i min leg, da jeg jo ikke kan komme til at pille når jeg har ble og babybody på, ligesom jeg godt kan lide at blive domineret, og at der er andre der bestemmer over mig. Babyen er for lille til at tage beslutninger, så dem er der andre der må tage for ham :)
Det er dog ikke et spil jeg har leget ret meget, da jeg mener at det skal udleves med en partner.